Self confidence is the word that we hear many times from people around us. But do we really know the meaning of self confidence and what exactly is self confidence? In this article we will see what is self confidence?The self confidence is one of the most important that are required by human to get success. Getting success in today's world, in any field has not been so easy. Everyone wants to be successful but only few of us get success. Why? Because they some qualities required to get success which we don't have and one such important quality is self confidence. So lets see self confidence and ways to build a self confidence.
Be Positive always/Be optimistic.
You can take things in two ways:either in positive way which best way or in negative way, perhaps the worst way. Think of the positive side of anything you are facing in your life. If take everything negatively it will adversely affect your mental as well as physical health. Being positive means you are thinking only about plus points of particular things and it will give you more energy and confidence in your life.
- Identify your insecurities. Insecurities for some thing and fear to failure are the main things due to which most of the people lost confidence. So first try to find out things which gives the feeling of insecurity to you. Recognize the things which gives you feeling of fear. And write these things on a paper. Sit back make yourself calm and think about the necessity of these things your life.You will find that most of things which are making you a man without confidence are not really required to be thought of. Once you have identified these points then it will be easier to find solution on these problems.
- Learn for your mistakes and failure.
Mankind is prone to mistakes. Everyone commits mistakes in life and everyone has a chance to improve those mistakes. The most important thing about mistake is that they gives you chance to reconsider your decision and rebuild your work. You can do more fine in your next attempt. Also every person faces failure in his/her at different points in life. Getting failure or doing a mistake is not crime in anyway and you should not feel over exposed due to some mistakes or failures. It is very good practice to adopt mistakes and failures as normal life conditions.But another thing very important about mistakes and failures is that you must learn from your past mistakes and failures. Mistakes and failures gives us chance to learn that's why they are equally important as success. - Be satisfactory with what you posses. Everyone doesn't get everything in life. Some of us are very conscious about the things which we don't have only. They will not think what they have but they will think only in terms and what they don't have and attach their failures and mistakes with what they don't posses. It is not good practice in life and you must avoid this practice. Rather you should think about what are the things available to you and use them effectively to get what you wanted in life. It is not difficult to practice this thing but concentration is important in this process.
What is self confidence?
In general self confidence is one's confidence,one's belief, one's knowledge and one's abilities. Self confidence is very important in every field of life. Some people are very confident about their abilities and some are not. Some will start and complete work immediately with confidence and others will think about unnecessary things can they complete work? Do they have required abilities to complete work and all such questions. But difference between self confident man and man without self confidence lies here. A man with self confidence will think that he can and a man without self confidence will think about possibilities only. That means a man with self confidence will think positively while a man without self confidence will think negatively. Everyone has capabilities and everyone has self confidence. But we lost these capabilities and self confidence in our busy life and due to some unsuccessful project in our life. If you are required to build self confidence again first try to find out where you have lost it? If you are searching for pen which you have lost in classroom and searching in your house, is there any possibility to find out pen at home? Oh! You all know these things. But first try to find out where you have lost your self confidence and you will get your self confidence from that place only. Here are some ways to build self confidence. Building a self confidence is not easy as the process of self improvement is, and building the self confidence is first thing process of self improvement. It is also most important thing to be achieved in process of self confidence. Because if you lost your self confidence or if you don't have it actually then you may leave the process of self improvement which is actually very important to get success in business, relationships and your social and family life.Steps to build self confidence
You can take things in two ways:either in positive way which best way or in negative way, perhaps the worst way. Think of the positive side of anything you are facing in your life. If take everything negatively it will adversely affect your mental as well as physical health. Being positive means you are thinking only about plus points of particular things and it will give you more energy and confidence in your life.
Helping others will boost your self confidence. It will the bring the feeling of something like completeness and joy. You will also feel like great human. Helping will always help you to build up your confidence. It differs you from others and gives the feeling of some special person. Don't believe me? Try it for only 8 days and you will thank me for suggesting this trick. to build up your confidence.
Accept things. Accept your past mistakes, your failures, bad performances, wrong decisions and wrong relationships. It will help to remove the burden from your heart and mind, that will eventually improve your self confidence. Once you have removed some type of negative burden from your mind it will help to improve your self confidence.
Small steps are easy to complete. These steps will give you some knowledge and helps to improve your self confidence. Try to split your work in smaller tasks that can be easily completed.
If you want increase the level of self confidence then you should monitor the way of your thinking. It is like controlling your mind, but you can easily divert a mind with negative thoughts to a mind with positive thoughts, after some time of practice. Yes it requires keen and effective practice so that every single moment you can keep control on your thoughts. The aim is to make habit thinking positive. And eventually positive thinking will helps to increase your self confidence.
You need not to see other persons or other things to get real happiness. If you are feeling completeness within you, you will be happy with you. try to learn the art of being you and being happy with yourself.
Increasing/Improving self confidence is not scientific experiment and these are some tricks to boost your confidence. It is continuous process that mus be monitored by yourself, all the time. If you lose control for moment, you will eventually lose all your progress. If you want to achieve what you want then you have to be very careful with these things and you should do all the things necessary.
