Relationships plays a very important role in our life. Our success or failure in life totally depends upon how we develop and manage relationships in our life. Both types of relationships informal/family/personal and formal/business/work relationships are equally important. But according to me informal relationships are very important. Because if you have managed your informal relationships are very well then there will not much problem in managing and developing formal relationships. In this article we will discuss
how to develop/build informal relationships? It is somewhat difficult to explain this thing because everyone of us is different with different nature and he/she face different types of persons in his life. In short, every person meets very different kinds of people.
Managing relationships with these different types of people may be very difficult, but try to understand the
art of managing relationship.
Depending upon my experiences I would like to share common points that should be kept in mind while
building/managing informal relationship. In these types of relationships your behavior, honesty, truthfulness, following your words etc. things are very important. It is not like to make time go ahead. You have to be clear in your views, opinions and thoughts. Be it any relationship like family, friends, love the important thing is how you are loyal to them? How you show your love and express your feelings with these people? Here are some
points to be remembered while building informal relationship.
Tips to build good informal relationship:
Be honest with your family members, friends and your partners.
Be loyal with them.
Treat the people as you wanted to treat yourself by them.
Show your love and affection towards them, at different occasions.
Express your feelings with these peoples as possible.
Believe in them, for this, you have to believe in yourself first.
Keep in mind no one is 100% perfect, in everything, in this world. Be flexible while you are with them. Being flexible doesn't mean to change your mind or thoughts about something but it means listening to their advice.
Develop the ability to listen other people. As you want yourself to be heard by them, they also want same thing from you.
Keep your behavior yourself, so that they can believe in you 100%. Most of the formal relationships breaks due to the fact that people fails to win the confidence of other persons in relationships.
Make yourself comfortable with other people and also try to keep them comfortable with you. Other persons in relationship should not feel that they are with animal on different planet.
Try to make compromise on different thoughts and different decision of other person in relationship. As every person has his/her own thoughts about particular situation or things, you can not change them in a day or two. You have to remember this point of making compromise in the conditions of conflicts between two of you.
Give gifts at different occasions, only if possible. As if your relationship is true and from heart your partner does not want materialistic things from you.
Care for other partners feelings. As you wanted to be cared they also want to be cared as human tendency.
Give proper attention to appropriate things of your partner in relationship. Appreciate him/her for his/her good things and particular skills.
These are some tips only, and you can use your own heart to win the heart of other people. These tips are helpful in building any informal relationship be it son-mother relationship, father-son relationship, husband-wife relationship or any kind of informal relationships. Hope these tips have given some idea and you will try make your relationships more stronger.
